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Wednesday, July 27, 2016

Tuesday, July 19, 2016

4 reason a classic cause of a breakup






















1. Mismatch

This is the classic reason breakup often revealed and we hear many stories about relationships. Feeling did not match with each other, the main cause of the breakdown of the relationship. The reason is not fit to be the main reason to end a relationship that has been established. Related not workable because of various things. Could be due to differences of opinion, does not fit the nature, do not fit in the style of daily living, does not fit the character at one another, do not fit the life of the association respectively and so forth. Even some couples who are in a relationship for many years but still can be broken, just as groundless not match.

Solution:

Whereas discrepancies that are relative and can actually be discussed if mutual understanding and mutual introspection. Because men in this world cannot be separated from its advantages and disadvantages. Because basically every nature and human nature are different, if there is no mutual understanding and accept the shortcomings that do not match ?. God creating humans are not the same and have a myriad of differences. God created man with race, religion, nature, character. Career, or different social status. If the already mutual affection and love, at least find a middle way solution and resolve the mismatch.

2. Remotely

Classic reasons cause a breakup one long-distance relationship. Relations separate distance and time to be the reason why people end a relationship. Because of the distance already separates them, so that not every time can spend the day together. Via text message, phone or social media as if not enough and made their breakup. Long distance relationships can also lead to mutual suspicion, respectively. There is no sense of trust in each other, can cause jealousy. Long distance relationship might cause anxiety partner relationship with a man or another woman.

Solution:

It is not easy to establish a long-distance relationship. But is not the important factor is the loyalty and commitment. Faithful to your partner to not betray each other. Commitment to trust each other on the activity and life of each social interaction. Unsuspecting, though not every time can walk together. Yet in today relationship can be forged and did not have to meet physically. If the intention to build relationships is no easy way, can each phone chat or video call. Everything can be lived as long as it mutual love and committed faithful.

3. Parents

Factors parents also become a classic reason causes a loving relationship broke up in the street. Because parents forbid their children in a relationship with one's spouse. Parents sometimes prohibits a variety of reasons that are sometimes difficult to understand. Could be because of different social status, a couple we considered not well established, our spouse is considered incompatible with the Desire parents, there is a mystery story in the past, our parents and elderly couples we previously hostile, factors of education, parents have had the option for us , or simply because of the sheer ego parents.

Solution:

Indeed, if the parents have banned our relationship, rather difficult to solve. But at least we have to try and fight to convince parents that we were in love with a partner. Because a loveless marriage relationship status would be empty and cannot be lived with sincerity. At least we show the parents that we have the right choice. Because after undergoing a relationship or marriage is not a parent but our own. We must undergo difficult or happy future. We ourselves are taking the risk of selection of our love. So parents should understand that he cannot manage his children's love life, although in this case some pros and cons.

4. The third man

The third man is also the reason the classic cause of a breakup. There are allegations of infidelity, there is love in the back, or there is a secret love with a third party. Third parties can own friends, co-workers, classmates, neighbors, even relatives. A third person makes the couple's relationship was destroyed because they feel there is infidelity and betrayal. Feeling love shared with others. Or secretly friend we were careful with our girlfriend or fiancé. They relate and agreed to meet in a place without our knowledge. The more pain they playacting and pretending as if nothing.

Solution:


It is betrayed and cheated is something very painful. Our spouse turns establish with others without our knowledge. But surely there must be a solution this problem. Investigate first whether there is a special relationship between our partners with a third person. If there is a connection, to what extent and whether it was a coincidence. But if there should certainly be no mutual introspection, forgiveness despite heavy. We have to say on the couple to promise not to repeat. We must give a commitment whether the relationship is maintained or still love each other. But sometimes it's hard if related matters of the heart and the issue of love. But whatever happens we have to accept the fact and still survive. If he decides to choose someone else, we must be willing and sincere. Because maybe she was not right for us and does not match ours.

Saturday, July 16, 2016

This is the picture of love, which in fact cannot be described





Love to death

A love so great so important, he seemed willing to die for the girl who craves. Love dies It usually we get some dialog romantic movies and about love. "Honey, I'm even willing to die for the sake of getting your love, because I truly love you". "I really love unto death, even I sleep is always remember you, remember your face always." That is an idea of ​​what love is dead.

Love in life and death

Is describing a love so deep, as if love conquers all in this world. The term is usually portrayed in some of the poetry and romantic story in the novel. Love life and death reflects two human couples who do not want to establish love as separated. "My love for you as lively as dead, I'm willing to do anything to get your love.". Love in life and death, as if their lives for their beloved ones. As if death was also handed over to a man she loved.

Puppy love

Love like this is described as a future love children. When we still do not know real love. Love Monkey describe sincerity and innocence of childhood, but may be momentary and temporary. Crushes usually apply in childhood between the ages of 16 and under. But despite past love children, but there are remembered into adulthood. And sometimes the relationship persists into adulthood and married. In fact there is always the memory of puppy love throughout his life.

Love only in the mouth

Love is illustrated especially for men who simply lied about love. Love just at the mouth like a love that just talk, without proof of sincerity. Love is just a word and not shown with sincerity. Love is just lip service only, no love in the heart. Usually this is done by a man with status playboy and likes playing women's hearts. Usually this word out of the mouth of women who feel cheated her. "This turned out to be for love only in the mouth, I'm really disappointed you did not really mean to me"

Blind love

Love as a symbol that he was blinded by love. He does not care who he is, any situation and under any circumstances. He remained blind love to her idol, or the idol man. Blind love so strong that no matter he is rich or poor. No matter the disparity, social status, and does not care about differences in beliefs. Love is like a man who does not want to know anything, besides his love to someone.

Pseudo love

Love as an illustration that one's love is only a mirage. Just a mere delusion and false. Love is not actual or merely abstract. Cintas apparent also describe the pain of a woman cheated by a partner. Pseudo love is the love that never happened in truth. Love burlesque, just like a fairy tale of love alone. Love is not touching the real heart and soul.

Eternal love

It is a term of love that seems to be embedded forever and will be intertwined forever. As if this love never dies, love without limits of time and dimensions. Like the everlasting, eternal loves never disappears and die. Love will continue to grow from era to era. The story of eternal love we often see in movies or novels dialog. Describing how the love two people, as if even death separates last forever.


Wednesday, July 13, 2016

5 spontaneous and unique way expressed love






Love is a gift of God that is invaluable. With the love of our lives more meaningful, it can ask a love struck couples. But how to express that love, when, and where. Love takes courage mental states, even though he's known for affairs brave fight in real life, but not necessarily if you dare to express love affair. Even love has long been buried, but he was reluctant and did not know how to express.

There are several common ways to express love and ordinary. But there are also ways unusual, spontaneous and unique way to express love. Some express their love and affection for the girl idol can be easy and sometimes difficult. There was a young man many years harbored feelings of love to the girl idol, without revealing his feelings at all. He could only regret the circumstances, when he saw the girl was with another man.

Previously he helplessly out the word love as if his mouth was locked. Yet every day the young man is known not shy type and sociable. But somehow, for the girl who he thinks every night, she could not express his heart's content. Never think of a unique way expressed love, he did not know what to do to express love in him. Indeed, how to express love are common, usually invites pact dinner idol girl. Or invite a meeting at a restaurant or café, carrying a rose.
However, there are some unusual way, about how youth express love. This can sometimes be encountered in real life and not just in the movies. How to declare his love even unusual, unique, and tend to be bizarre, such as spontaneous and unplanned. As an illustration of how express love following:

1. Express love in elevator

A young man has been known since college with a girl, now they are separated for different workplaces. But they still meet occasionally, for coffee and tea with some friends in college. One time they both enjoy the moment, because the girl was accidental companionship to the mall to buy some clothes. This opportunity should certainly be used by the young man, because since his college days he had harbored feelings for him. And this view is now still a girl alone or do not have a boyfriend.
He also ventured and wanted to declare his love. Spontaneously began to fall from the lift when the mall, cold sweat out of him and shaking his mouth spontaneously. "Linda, I'm sorry I have to say this. Actually I undemonstrative to you since we first met in college, now will you be my lover ". Suddenly the girl next to him was shocked, man college friend had shot him in the elevator. For a moment he was silent and thought, but now he knew the contents of her feelings to him. a few minutes later the girl said, "Yes I cannot answer right now, waiting for when the time comes". Answer the girl is certainly debatable whether to reject or accept the love of friends in college youth. But at least the boy has been relieved stated in his heart for many years and now just waiting for the next answer.

2. State in love while on the toilet door

When he was already known for three months with her idol. They had been eating and watching movies together. But their relationship had been just a close friend, nothing more. But not for the young man, he was for three months cannot sleep well, work did not continue to be overshadowed concentration because the girl's face. He also did not know how to express love because she was not a romantic. He is also not the kind of guy who can bring flowers to express feelings. He is also afraid of appointments to meet with a girl in a special place to talk about serious things. But there is a moment when they get together at the mall, the girl also said goodbye briefly to the toilet. But the one hand, the young man's heart skipped a beat, "I have to say this". He was waiting for the girl to appear at the exit of the toilet and finally express his feelings. "Rebecca, you know I always think about you every day, I love you and want our relationship". The girl also seemed surprised, but he had understood for 3 months is certainly enough for the young man to express love. At least they are now no certainty the status of the relationship, because the man was expressing his love.

3. State of love when sick.

Usually to find a colleague or friend close attention, that they want to visit when we are sick. They are willing to take the time and bring a bit of fresh fruit to come to our room at the hospital. Because when visited by people or friends, we felt cared for and feel in this world alone. And usually the girl who has feelings for men, it cannot be quiet and sad to hear ill. The girl had invited a friend to visit the boy, as he brought a box of pastries and buy fresh fruit. At the time of small talk about the state and condition of illness, the girl was shocked by the words of men. "Thank you for visiting me in the hospital, but I want you to understand, I really love you and I want to be your lover". These words from the lips of the young man slowly. The girl was touched because it was during this time the youth was also no sense to him.

4. Love her gangplank

When on business, he had to go alone to a city, with coworker’s woman. The woman had worked about 4 months and the man had worked for more than three years. Actually, from the first to come to work, the man was no feeling to his new colleagues. However, choosing to wait or somehow did not dare reveal his heart to the woman. Especially when away on business, they are more often moving together, develop proposals, and presentations together. But the time comes they must go back to the office of origin. And while descending from the plane, the man reveals his heart spontaneously, "I know what my mind is, I think I fell in love with you. Will you be my girlfriend and the mother of my children later ". The woman fresh off the plane was stunned and stared trading partner next to him. He smiled and when some steps up on the airport tarmac he say. "Yes, let's take first, we'll see." The man working partner feel relieved because they express their feelings. Despite having to undergo all while waiting for the girl members answer yes or no

5. Express love in a train waiting room

One time a young man asked to escort the girl went to the train station, which intends to visit her grandmother in a town. The girl did not have a boyfriend, and parents and brother could not deliver. The man who has long put his heart on the him, happily dropping even in a train station waiting room. Until the time comes, when the seconds seconds siren set off. And the girl was ready to catch the train headed down the stairs. Suddenly the boy holding his hand and say. "I do not know and maybe the time is not right, but now have to say that I love you and want to be the man best man."
For a moment in silence while the girl can only continue to hold baggage. "You do not have to answer right now, but I waited for the day that you've arrived at home grandmother". The girl could only smile as he stared at the man in front of him. "Really I am glad to hear it, but after at grandma's house for sure I give the news. And hopefully everything beautiful in its time. "And the girl was rushed to the train headed for the stairs. The youth was kept staring at her, until sirens train passed the station to leave the crowds.


Those are some illustrations and a piece of the story of how, where, say love. Sometimes it is spontaneous, and unusual, or even weird and unique. How?? you have other experiences more interesting to say about love. Please Write in the comments ....

Tuesday, July 12, 2016

10 things that must be faced as long as we live





10 is enough to make a happy life




To make you happy actually can be easy or it can be difficult. 10 is enough to make a happy life, depending on everyone's heart. What size? in fact it could or could not be measured. Because happiness is abstract or not visible to others. Because happiness cannot be seen by the eye. Perhaps because it is in the heart, feeling, and thinking.
Here are 10 ways to achieve a happy life pretty:

1.       Enough money

The feeling that money is not everything. Life in the world is in need of money, but money is not a god. So certainly do not make the money to measure everything. Moreover, earn money by illegal and harmful to others. Whatever I earn money through business, business services, business partners or others. Money does not make people have to be evil and a criminal. With this you may make a happy life.  Enough money into one of 10 is enough to make a happy life

2.       Self-property

Property is a symbol of success, a symbol of prosperity and even self-esteem. But the property also does not guarantee the calm and happy life. Suppose you get the property by stealing or cheating. Real important but should not be a competition to achieve negative. Because the sky there is heaven, competition for pursuing the property will not be solved as long as people still have negative passions.

3.       Quite healthy

Healthy is the most precious thing in the world. Whatever money and property does not stack would make her happy if he attack. Health is very important because one of the conditions to make us able to enjoy life. There are people who have a bunch of dollars and a lot of companies. But if you have to undergo therapy and chronic hospitalized all the time will not make him happy

4.       Simply vacation

Holidays are very important because people need to smile, laugh need, and feel happy. Entertainment is important because as we balance because we've been too busy and serious to undergo activity at all times. But everyone is different specific ways holidays. No matter expensive or cheap holiday, which is important to make your thoughts and feelings entertained. Therefore vacation bag must be adapted to each person and do not push yourself. quite holidays are also a part of 10 is enough to make a happy life

5.       Just work

 Is also important, ongoing work around the clock and stop the bad. Not only activity that produces energy. But working and racked my brain drain mind. Sometimes people forget to work to go home, forget if you have children and a wife. To forget that it is a human and not machines or robots. Because the machine also has a system refresh and be temporarily turned off. As members of the human body is made of God, and not easy to find a replacement. Like the auto parts can be found in automotive stores.

6.       Get enough sleep

Sleep is also important for the rest of us can sleep with my eyes closed. Automatic rest of the brain, thoughts, feelings and ambitions. With enough sleep makes your body refreshed upon waking. Sleep is a basic human needs. This indicates that God gave warning that human beings are not perfect. Normal people who do not sleep two days, must have felt unwell and sore eyes.

7.       Just relax

Sometimes we have to sit back and relax on the couch or lay down on the sofa. Sit back and enjoy a coffee or tea and staring into the expanse of the heavens. Or stop at a city park to enjoy the greenery. Looked green leaves and beetle flying around. Leisure is necessary for the work to be taxing, brain drain and creative ideas. However tired I think the energy recovered faster than we are tired mind

8.       Enough exercise

getting enough exercise to make people more fit. Because the sport is very important blood circulation and to bring our bodies balanced. Sports such as mild respiratory metabolism will make your body relaxed. because the circulation of oxygen and will regularly keep the rhythm of a normal heartbeat. Sports certainly can improve blood circulation, especially for those who work too much sitting. Sports also produces sweat to burn calories and fat is detrimental.

9.       Just ambitions

everyone has ambition and aspirations. Making life has direction and purpose for sure. But not too good to be overly ambitious. That act like God that everything he wants to be achieved should occur. Regardless of how it has illegal, harmful to others, dropping his others, and living close to others. Be the ambitions and aspirations but remains in a positive way.

10.   Enough of worship

this is the cover of 10 is enough to make a happy life. Because we have to remember our purpose was man created on earth. Man is not eternal, it will be old, it will be weak over age. And always remember the way God will guide us. Worship according to their religion and beliefs of every person. Worship will make people at ease and at peace because God was with him. However, God is loving everything. What determines our happiness or not, successful or not, to be rich or not. Humans can only think of course, trying to, and submit the results to God.